She went to the restaurant for dinner. She looked at him. It was just a boy, could not be more than 18 years. I was very young for her, a woman. While the meal she asked, could not help noticing her laugh and her smile contagious .
The boy playfully noted while laughing about how she was dripping water by rain, laughing at other things and had a little chat. She was totally fascinated with it ... He seemed a lovely guy , lovely ...
That wave! can read a lot of seduction theory, tactics, philosophy, attitude, words ... but she was amazed. Why? was something about him ...
He was at ease in your own skin! He was comfortable being who he is, at peace with itself ... Now, at this present moment! Learn to laugh and enjoy life. That's all you have. This moment, not yesterday (and left) nor am (can not be guaranteed), but this time ... this is the only thing you know you have.
This young man reminded him of something she was very attractive ... peace. He just was being himself, being outgoing, sociable, smiling and at peace. The boy made a joke about putting soap in your car and leave the car outside in the rain. Her laughter and her smile was genuine. He was not trying to look or be anything ... was just enjoying the moment.
Why do men try to pick up women? Addressing " women? Why not just talk to them? Just be yourself ... without trying to "do something" but just being you. That you much closer to the process of knowing. Being natural ...
As we approached with the idea of \u200b\u200b"getting" (whatever that is: their number, date, name, sex ...) give the impression of a vendor or needed. If interact for the pleasure of speaking with her, make her laugh ... there is no goal, not a "get" that causes her to lift the walls . Then it is open to you.
There is a vibration that is transmitted when someone wants something. He feels that wave. Immediately makes her suspicious. She would prefer a man to talk to her without another idea that we passed and he wanted to say hello. As the boy's attitude. He was just having fun. Enjoying himself, sharing his humor and joy, and giving it to her without expecting anything in return.
In summary , learn who you are, be at peace with you, laugh ... have fun at this time. Do not take it so seriously! If you're relaxed, it will be too. So you can find in that space where the magic happens ... that space in no distress or need ... it's open to the laughter and love ...
The life of a man is as big as the size of your questions. If I talk about creating memories in a woman, create magic, sometimes this is what some would tell me:
"Yes, yes, but how do I get the girl, or how do I write, I call, how I miss it, I like a girl but I do not know how to talk to her ... "
All these stories are nothing if you really know who you are . Because when you get to understand it, nothing else matters, you get the idea that what you motivates you, what your heart desires, lives in the air, in you, in your heart and nobody can take away that.
So things like "when you should call" becomes negligible.
call anytime when you exit.
Things like when to kiss her "not even think.
The kiss when you know it will be magical ...
Vamos! Let magic in life and in us!
